如果别人没跟你过不去, 把人往死里整, 是太过分. 大头要整B 是 TA 的事, A 但凡有其他出路, 是不应该做刽子手的. 轻易不要与人结仇, 是做人的基本道理.
-newsky(rat);
2014-4-4(#8691435@0)
A is warm hearted, but the ending is certainly not good either for A or B.
there should be a better outcoming
-thornhillwoods(松屋山庄);
2014-4-4(#8691470@0)
One golden rule I learnt on office politics is never fight with your manager (you can fight on technical stuffs but never soft stuffs). In this case, A failed.
-jeffrey815(Smartiecat);
2014-4-4(#8691605@0)
When one door get closed, another door will be open. Listen to your heart and do what you think is right. I admire the choice your spouse made. A big applause to your both!! Ding.
-spruce(加国的枫叶红了);
2014-4-4(#8692668@0)
You are lucky to have a spouse like this...A is doing the right / admirable thing, period. It really does not matter whether B knows or not, but if I were A, I would try to communicate via email / written reports to argue out my reasons. If in the end, the boss still sticks his #$@ decision, I will no doubt go one level above the boss to make my complaint heard as such type of boss is better to be ridden of for the sake of all stakeholders...
-yh_abc(yh_abc);
2014-4-4{403}(#8692975@0)
既然已经挺身而出了，A 应该给大头施加压力，而不是坐等大头给 A 施加压力。如果矛盾或积怨缘于沟通则帮助沟通，如果矛盾或积怨有更深原因且不可调和，则只讲利害。是否 doable 取决于A 的砝码（带领团队完成了项目）是否够大。
如果我是 A 我也会这么做，不只是为了道德和公平，而是我带着兄弟们干了活，大头让我卸磨杀驴，以后谁还会给我当小弟卖命？
当老大就是要罩着小弟的，小弟不卖命你可以把他踢出去，小弟替你卖了命，谁要动他（哪怕是你的老大）得先过你这关。
-xmlhttprequest(build5381);
2014-4-5{269}(#8693150@0)