do not understand why that "Worst" Chinese guy not doing his job fast, while he used to be a senior role? just because he wants extend his contract?
-vetra(豆泡果 之 多泡泡);
2009-4-30(#5231340@0)
I guess he was looking for a permanent job, so often coming late, disappearing during the day etc. without informing me or reporting his actual hours on the time sheet.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231358@0)
communication is the most important thing! We Chinese people do not like speak out what happened and what situation is. The "worst" Chinese guy did wrong, neither did you.
-vetra(豆泡果 之 多泡泡);
2009-4-30(#5231736@0)
Absolutely. well, I did not say I did it right, right?
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231784@0)
no, you did not. I mean, you did not communicate with him while tried to cover him. I am not saying you should have not offer the favor to him
-vetra(豆泡果 之 多泡泡);
2009-4-30(#5231819@0)
admire you if youare really so nice
-kangkang2009(kang kang);
2009-4-30(#5231385@0)
呵呵，我是不惮于自夸的。"nicest guy in the world" 是有点过了。but I can assure you, I am a very nice and quiet man.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231404@0)
It is for sure that your English is quite good.I know a nicest guy. He taught .net free for people who had donated SiChang last year.
-kangkang2009(kang kang);
2009-4-30{86}(#5231428@0)
can I join?
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231620@0)
Please check your message!From Frank.
-kangkang2009(kang kang);
2009-5-2{11}(#5235742@0)
being nice with good luck doesn't mean that you will be nice for good. Still long way to go. Never try to be nice to everyone, it is because it isn't worth.
-dop(道之河洛);
2009-4-30(#5231413@0)
I am not naive. Maybe with good luck or being worthless, I have not met any real "bad" guy yet.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231436@0)
I agree, you are not naive. Do you want to prompt yourself to next level? if yes, being aggressive is the direction you may want to pursue.
-dop(道之河洛);
2009-4-30(#5231487@0)
I don't know, really. I declined an opportunity about 2 years ago when things were going well. I always wanted a simple life - but I can lose much of my influence during organizational change.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231510@0)
No offense. Being nice=sucker. I once took on not only a peer's work when he's not delivering what I needed, but also my boss' when she's pre-occupied. Results-my boss was let go; so were the rest of her team.In the future I will only take care of myself and won't take responsibility for the rest of the world.
-into(候鸟);
2009-4-30{103}(#5231461@0)
Yep, I am quite familiar with the term - I am one myself in its true form. Thanks for the reminder. My workload has been >50 hours per week for the past 3 years. I am in a conference call now. What a sucker and slacker. LOL.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231481@0)
Being nice doesn't mean tolerance of those hurting the business, that is NOT fair to others making contribution.
-vicky2005(孩子她爹);
2009-4-30(#5231496@0)
i know. My character is flawed.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-4-30(#5231517@0)
THANK YOU. I rejected an offering in the management team was exactly because what you just pointed it out.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-5-1(#5233280@0)
I agree. but what is the fourth point in your numbered point? maybe the last point is the fourth?
-skitennis(tennisfan);
2009-5-1(#5234232@0)
agree
-mademoiselle(N/A);
2009-5-2(#5235982@0)
totally agree. You handle things with grace, you will be treated gracefully. well, at least most of time.
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2009-5-1(#5233256@0)
You have a very warm heartMost importantly, (though you kept the secrete to yourself, hoho, kidding...) You must also know what is the right thing to do and able to get results, so you got advancement in career, applaud for you...
-voice(D.C.O.);
2009-5-1{204}(#5233722@0)
wow ... if you are described as nice here, it certainly is not a good thing though ... but it's our nature, I guess
-mademoiselle(N/A);
2009-5-2(#5235973@0)
In one word, be tough on the problem, be easy with people.
-goingconern(GoingConcern);
2009-5-4(#5240231@0)