be further away from the truth.
in other words, only a true heartbreaker can command a woman's genuine tenderness. This is exactly the ultimate source of a woman's eternal dilemma -- she can only and will only surrender her tenderness to her conqueror. and yet unless she is exceptionally clever and resourceful her conqueror (if he lives up to the title of "conqueror") will sooner or later betray her or abandon her -- simply because of the nature of a conqueror.
and, you can be certain the one who can indeed break your heart probably has already accomplished the same on other preys.
just like Hamlet can never put an end to his famous dilemma "to be or not to be", a true woman, no matter how intelligent she can be, will always be baffled by the tentalizing question "to fall for a vallain or not to fal for a villain".