本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛If you already have enough money (whatever how the money come from, maybe from a jackpot), would you still go back china to fight for a position of VP or even a technical manager? Would you still go back to china to run a small enterprise?
I really wonder sometimes, if it's the money or the work itself that attracts people going back to china.
When most of people talking about "Ren Shang Ren", I feel they care more on money. Because you're rich or earning more, you're admired in china, though in most of time, your money has nothing to do with other people because you will neither loan to them nor donate for charity. So in that case, we should shit to these rich people, we only need to love and admire who did love and help us even a little.
Same rule applies to any power. If someone becomes a senior officier of china, who cares? At least I don't care. Because I don't need to flat him to get any benefit. So the key point lies in ourselves.
If you can live a good life in NA or even anywhere with enough financial support, we have enough self-esteem and no need to envy any successful persons. Because they do nothing good to us.
From self-esteem point of view, actually it's not gained by getting rich. I did meet some poor people with self-esteem. If they think what you have is a shit, you can never look down them.
For example, in many cases, a green card of canada or US is a good thing to peacock to many chinese people. Because many chinese people don't really want to live in china. They just treat china as a place of Gold Rush. But if you tell a Gernan that you've a green card of canada, he will say "so what?" Even he is living on welfare.
It's ironic to see that china claimed to have the most prosperous economy, but rich people and officers are anxious to have foreign passports for their family.
Even Taiwan is not that way. In 70's, people going back to Taiwan because they feel confident about it. Few rich men or senior officers relocated their family and property out of Taiwan.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
I really wonder sometimes, if it's the money or the work itself that attracts people going back to china.
When most of people talking about "Ren Shang Ren", I feel they care more on money. Because you're rich or earning more, you're admired in china, though in most of time, your money has nothing to do with other people because you will neither loan to them nor donate for charity. So in that case, we should shit to these rich people, we only need to love and admire who did love and help us even a little.
Same rule applies to any power. If someone becomes a senior officier of china, who cares? At least I don't care. Because I don't need to flat him to get any benefit. So the key point lies in ourselves.
If you can live a good life in NA or even anywhere with enough financial support, we have enough self-esteem and no need to envy any successful persons. Because they do nothing good to us.
From self-esteem point of view, actually it's not gained by getting rich. I did meet some poor people with self-esteem. If they think what you have is a shit, you can never look down them.
For example, in many cases, a green card of canada or US is a good thing to peacock to many chinese people. Because many chinese people don't really want to live in china. They just treat china as a place of Gold Rush. But if you tell a Gernan that you've a green card of canada, he will say "so what?" Even he is living on welfare.
It's ironic to see that china claimed to have the most prosperous economy, but rich people and officers are anxious to have foreign passports for their family.
Even Taiwan is not that way. In 70's, people going back to Taiwan because they feel confident about it. Few rich men or senior officers relocated their family and property out of Taiwan.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net