本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛1. 为什么乡镇企业的老总违背了旅馆规定，赔了七千德国马克, 丢了全体成员的脸，也丢了中国人的脸? if your son accidently broken the window glass of your next door, you pay $200 to your next door. by doing this did you 丢了全体成员的脸，也丢了中国人的脸? The rule is rule, you broken it, you pay for it. nothing to do with whose face.

2. You said " 我就喜欢用长流水化冰”，“我就喜欢邀请别人一起来玩电脑”，“我就喜欢满屋的灯整天都亮着”，“我就不愿打理卫生”，“我就讨厌别人对我指手划脚，谁也无权干涉我的习惯与自由” 等等的理由也是站不住脚的。如果你个人的习惯违背了租房之初的约定或合同，你的自由损害了房东的利益，房东为什么不可以说出来 " My question is did you write down those " 不许邀请别人一起来玩电脑”，不许满屋的灯整天都亮着”，不许用长流水化冰, 必须打理卫生”in 租房之初的约定或合同. If No, What's " 违背了租房之初的约定或合同 "

3. In your case, there is NO “主” 和“客” 的关系. 一方是房东, 一方是房客, Both sides have to follow 租房的约定或合同 (in writen) and bylaw. You cannot using 主” 和“客” 的关系 to take advantages.

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就只记得自己的荣誉史，对糗事进行淡忘处理。就算有少数从小到大做事向来检点的，也免不了对万事有节僻，因而诸多挑剔，对诸事看不惯，生气一辈子，心想好在自己那20岁的孩子不象自己那么执着。

小留的毛病我20岁时也有，我现在的毛病，年纪比我更大的人一早经历过了，总结一下，似乎知道怎么坦然应对，让今天过得舒心。道理归道理，方式归方式，态度归态度。

看了你租房的系列文章，感觉你太感情用事，我也有分门出租单位，生意就是生意，我既不与房客交朋友，也不管他们开多少灯睡觉，屋子脏不脏。基本上我不进入出租单位，眼不见为净，大不了搬走后请人打扫一次。扫雪这些事根本就不要指望房客，我的房客都住得很久，最近要卖房，不得不请一家住了3年多的房客搬走，不知里面住成什么样了？大概要花一笔装修费，也不过是他2-3个月的房租吧。将自住房分租（特别是共用厨房等），真的要有改变生活方式的思想准备，对房客要求过高只能是自寻烦恼，算一下有利润就租，没什么赚头就算了。

这就象骑车的骂开车的，一旦有一天TA开车了就反过来骂骑车的了。
租客花了钱就想得到最佳待遇，充分享受自己花了钱所应得的最大权益。
而业主的心思是，最好收了人家租金而租客却没来住，就是来住也象没来住一样，不点灯、不用水、鸦雀无声，要是能主动为业主免费做点什么则更佳。
其实老外业主和租客之间的矛盾一样多。类似的矛盾无解，无论业主还是租客发发牢骚罢了，没什么意义。

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Generally speaking, you are NOT suitable for being a landlord. The reasons are obvious and simple:

You don’t have an open mind, you can’t stand people who are against your morals, you only expect others to meet your so-called moral standards, but never consider things from others’ perspective.

You are stubborn, you are unable to take others’ advice and keep debating even though it’s so obvious you are not reasonable.

You are too self-conscious and emotional, if you want to do business, then you have to keep in mind “ it’s just business, nothing is personal”.

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I have to say there is nothing wrong with this kind of personality, lots of people are like that. However, if you want to become a landlord, especially you and your tenants live under one roof, please, for the sake of the happiness for both you and your potential tenants, please stay away from being a landlord.

And for those potential home buyers, if you plan to rent out your house, please re-consider it if you belong to this type, don’t buy a big house if you can’t afford it, buy a smaller one, or buy a condo or townhouse, or keep renting until you can afford it on your own. Life is short and complicated already, please keep it simple, and give yourself and others a life … and don’t torture yourself and others any more.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

你小时候可能还不如他们呢，拿本非中国护照就以为自己不是中国人了，其实你也算不上那护照标志国家的人，要说中国人有什么弱点，你去照照镜子就最清楚不过了，你可以把房子租给非中国人试试，也算是一种超脱。最讨厌就是离开中国就以为超凡了，在国内混的好不愿出来的还多着呢。